About Me

What's the one word you would intuitively choose to describe your life? For me, it's connection.

Having been through sexual trauma and various mental disorders in relation to it for years, I never really knew what safe and authentic connection felt like. Having walked through the valley of my own shadow, I have discovered my gift in connecting with my true self, with our fellow human beings, with nature and with spirituality.

My calling is to help others to find or create these connections, too.

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Back in China I was a lawyer, and 8 years ago I came to the Netherlands to get my Advanced Master's Degree in Human Rights Law. In February 2018, I finished my Ph.D. in Law & Anthropology at Leiden University, researching on lesbian and gay people’s marriage pressure in China. Then I worked for the Red Umbrella Fund, a foundation that supports sex workers’ rights. All these works show my longing for living in an equal, free and authentic world. Now, instead of approaching it from the institutional level, I see my talent in catalyzing trauma-healing on the individual and community levels.

Currently my passion lies in:

  • Serving my online conscious community in China, Octopus Awakening;

  • Facilitating online and in person Circling events, showing people the power of authentic relating.

  • Providing one-on-one circling sessions and guided psychdedlic journeys.

  • Making quality guided meditaion audios and other podcast episodes about spiritual growth, body & emotional awareness, love & relationships, as well as conscious business.